The Forty Rules of Love

Book Review: The Forty Rules of Love by Elif Shafak

Author: Elif Shafak

Genre: Historical Fiction, Spiritual Fiction

Published: 2009

Synopsis

The Forty Rules of Love beautifully intertwines two parallel stories: one set in the 13th century between the poet Rumi and the wandering dervish Shams of Tabriz, and the other in the modern day, following Ella Rubinstein, a forty-year-old woman trapped in an unfulfilled marriage.

When Ella reads a manuscript about Rumi and Shams, their spiritual journey awakens something within her — a longing for love, meaning, and spiritual freedom.

Themes 

• Spiritual Love: The novel redefines love as a divine, transformative force that connects all beings.
• Self-Discovery: Both Ella and Rumi’s stories mirror a quest for identity and purpose.
• Faith and Tolerance: It emphasizes compassion and understanding beyond religious or cultural divides.
• Transformation: True love — whether human or divine — reshapes the soul.

Writing Style

Elif Shafak’s writing is lyrical, poetic, and philosophical. The book alternates between past and present, blending mysticism with realism. Each “rule” shared by Shams is a gem of spiritual wisdom, offering reflections on love, God, and human nature.

Character Development

• Shams of Tabriz: A mysterious Sufi dervish who challenges norms and teaches through paradox.
• Rumi: The scholar-turned-poet who learns that divine love transcends logic.
• Ella Rubinstein: A modern woman rediscovering her heart through the lessons of Rumi and Shams.

Strengths

• Deeply philosophical yet emotionally relatable
• Rich blend of spirituality, history, and storytelling
• Inspiring quotes and life lessons that linger

Weaknesses

• Some readers may find the pace slow or overly reflective
• The shift between timelines can feel abrupt at times

Verdict

⭐ Rating: 4.5/5

The Forty Rules of Love is a spiritually enlightening and soul-stirring novel that transcends time. It reminds readers that love — in all its forms — is the path to divine truth. A must-read for those seeking depth, wisdom, and beauty in literature.